“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”






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If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you..





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My six word love story-
"I can’t imagine life without you."






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You may hold my hand for a while, but you hold my heart forever..





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To be your friend was all I ever wanted; to be your lover was all I ever dreamed.





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I love you and that's the beginning and end of everything





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You are every reason, every hope and every dream I've ever had..



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Any day spent with you is my favorite day. So, today is my new favorite day.





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When I see you, my heart beats a little faster, my stomach feels a little lighter & my smile shines a little brighter.




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You are the only one thing I can't get enough of...





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Being someone's first love is great, but being someone's last love is beyond perfect.




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If you were a cactus, I'd endure all pain just to hug you.





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Every time I feel lonely, just a thought of you makes me happy.




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It makes me happy to see you everyday, every hour and every minute, even if it is for no reason.



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Love is sweetest when it's with you.





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Ask me to describe my love for you and I will tell you this: Trying to describe my love for you is like asking someone to describe what water tastes like it's impossible to do and it's impossible to live without you.






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If the weapon is your love, I got my hands up. If you're gonna take me down, I surrender.





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“When love is not madness it is not love.”




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Love is like a rubber band held at both ends by two people, when one leaves, it hurts the other.






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Can you relate?








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Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you.








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Is not a kiss the very autograph of love?







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To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.







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Love is the silent saying and saying of a single name.







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A bell is not a bell until someone rings it, a song is not a song until someone sings it. Love wasn't put in the heart to stay, for love isn't love 'til you give it away.






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Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.








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The greatest science in the world; in heaven and on earth; is love. 








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Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.







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“Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get — only with what you are expecting to give — which is everything.”






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What is love? 


Those who don't like it
call it responsibility. Those who play
with it call it a game. Those who don't
have it call it a dream. Those who
understand it call it destiny. And me, I
call it you.

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ANCHAL SHARDA

LOVE HURTS A LOT

The one i loved most hurts me in the worst way...

The one i needed most left me and gone away...

Today i don't love anyone and so everyone needs me...

And thats the fact..

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Some 'Reasons' definitely make relationships strong;
But the fact is,,,
Only the strong relationships will remain forever without any Reasons..:)♥

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EXPERIENCE OF LOVE 

Love is something very difficult to explain.. but its all about your experiences.. but it's an amazing feel... that i must say everyone should experience at least Once... !!!

To experience the feeling of Love you need to listen to your Heart and then observe someones intentions and then react.. not to react on too early stage.. or not take it for guarantee. so take Decision wisely and more important timely.

only then you can feel What it Is.. how it gives you pleasure..  and whenever you remind all those mesmerized moments it will automatically draw a Beautiful Smile on your face and it will help you guys to forget some bad situations from where we all are sometimes went through. and you can also share your experiences, best moments and Lessons with your near and dear ones, it may help them in their love lives. And you can also give your opinion to all those people who lost their Trust belief in LOVE.. due to their Bad Experiences and help them what path they should lead...

So i can say.. All the very Best from my side, to all the lovers and Beloved Ones. Keep falling in love with your partner every moment.



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Yeah i am in  love

This sentence makes you feel so happy. In starting you always feel very happy , excited and chilled. But in most of the love cases the moment occurs when you feel so sad and stressed just because of conflicts between two of them. No doubt its a part of every love story but sometimes when it changes into continuity, these are not acceptable .

Adjustments are always there in life but it takes time to adjust so that on the just timing it gets into stress, burden. And you regret of your decisions but you cannot breakup as you have more other reasons to hang on with your lover and made commitment to your partner for life long. This situation is most killing neither you can be normal nor you can step back.

At this time if you get no solution out of this, the best solution is Halt your relation for some time as you as well as your partner have independent right to be with the partner of own choice. When you think now we are adjustable then let it continue and fall in love with each other every moment.


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10 Signs of Attraction in the First Conversation

 Love happens at first sight and sometimes, it happens in the first conversation itself. Sometimes, a person feels a connection with the other just by having a simple conversation that too, for the first time. Don’t panic instead, take your time to read the instincts.

Here are 10 Signs of Attraction in the First Conversation 

1. He keeps looking at you 
Even as he talks to you, he cannot stop looking at you with a sharp gaze. Of course, a person will look at you when he is talking to you. But, when you realize that he is looking at you in a slightly, well, intense manner, you must know that he is interested in you. There is something in you that attracts him and he cannot seem to take his eyes off you.

2. He queries you about your relationship status 
He asks you whether you are dating someone or not. The question may take you by surprise but do not avoid it. Being truthful with him or not is completely your choice. Even if you are single and the guy does not interest you, you could lie about your relationship status. Or, you could be firm and tell him the truth whatever it may be, and show him the red signal. 

3. He cannot stop smiling 
He keeps smiling throughout the conversation. At first, you think of it as a polite gesture but later you realize he is grinning from ear to ear and you cannot help it but can merely wonder as to what is making him so happy. After a while, you realize it’s you. Your presence is what making him happy and his smile is a testimony to that. Smile back at him but be sure that you do not let him get any wrong ideas.  

4. He tries to please you
Although he has met you for the first time, for some reason, he tries to do things that would make you happy. From pulling out the chair for you to offering you a bar of chocolate, he seems very eager to please you. He tries to do everything he can that, he thinks, would make you happy. He does these things as he hopes it would make you appreciate his efforts and notice him.

5. He hints at being single 
You did not ask him even once about his relationship status, but he keeps dropping hints at being single and available. He might go as far as mentioning it directly. He even talks about his last relationship and how did it end up in a break-up. He keeps emphasizing the fact that he has moved on and is ready to date another person

6. Silence 
There are moments when he gets all silent and keeps staring at you blankly. You are talking to him and asking him to share his views on something, but he does not reply. All he does keep looking at you with a faint smile playing on his lips. You have to shake him out of his blank state. It happens because he is attracted towards you and finds it difficult to concentrate on the conversation. 

7. Tries to prolong the conversation 
You want to leave and try to say goodbye to him, but he does not let you do so. He tries several ways to prolong the conversation and let the words flow. He does not stop talking from his end and tries his best to keep you engaged in the conversation. He is completely smitten by you and does not want to let go of this one chance to win your love. 

8. Compliments you 
He keeps complimenting you on your looks, outfit, etiquettes, table manners etc. Although he has met you for the first time, he is completely taken by the way you carry yourself and cannot stop complimenting you. He showers compliments on you because he genuinely likes you. You could thank him for his gesture but must understand why he is doing that. 

9. He seeks your attention 
He gets a little upset when you look at the other end and do not listen to something that he is saying. He wants your undivided attention. He is completely bowled over by your charm and the least he expects is some attention from your end. He does not let any interruption or somebody else talk to you. If he tries to please you and you do not pay any heed to him, it could upset him.  

10. He suggests another meeting 
When it’s time for you to part ways, he requests you to share your contact details and offers to share his details too. He hints at meeting again. He could ask you out for coffee or could even request you to accompany him to an art exhibition. If you find him interesting, you could say yes to him or could make some excuse. If a guy is interested in you, take it as a compliment. Do not get intimidated if he approaches you. Of course, if you find the guy to be creepy, stay away from him and get yourself out of the conversation and turn him down politely. Whereas, if he comes across as a fairly nice guy, talk to him, get to know him.



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BIG Difference Between Like and Love 

There are numerous differences between whom you like and whom you love. Love and like may be felt in the same way but actually are completely different. We use the word ”infatuation” for like, it proves to be addictive love. It may come and go. After a fight, it may allow you to leave that person because you can’t bear him/hear for a longer time as you start ha

ting them. But the difference which love has is beautiful. Loving is patiently done and even after a fight, you can’t leave the person, no matter what the case is.

It’s is easy to like a person. There are no issues and much tension. But as and when you find a person to love, one has to be calm and composed to handle the relationship as there will be numerous ups and downs in a relationship but the duo needs to stand by every time. They need to be together as they won’t be able to leave each other as an unbreakable bond unleashes its way. 

Love has its origin with the eyes. Whereas, liking starts with the ongoing of numerous conversations. Love will make you crazy to constantly look at the person you admire. It involves unlimited talking as well. The person you admire, you love will come in your mind every one minute. But you might not be thinking same about the person you like. Liking may have some boundaries from either of the sides but love has no boundaries It is limitless to any extent. You can share anything in the world with the one you love. They will never have any intentions to judge you for any single reason. If you like somebody, then you are less likely to share each and every thing in your life with them. At this point, some limits may stop you from going further. If you tend to look in the eyes of the one you love, you start blushing. It is the reflex action that makes you do it. You are unable to control something like this. It unknowingly feels so cute. But there are times when you look at the one you like, you just smile.

Likeness is when you know good side of that person and that makes you like them. Loving comes internally. You will tend to love a person even if you seen their worst positions in life and still supported them in their twists and turns. Just like take the case of your family, you can never stop loving them. You have seen them in their best as well as in their worst. You can just never let the person go if you love a person with all your heart. Love is when you describe a person who has got hold of your life. Every action of his affects you in some deep way. You just can’t stay detached with then even for a short period of time. Whereas, like is a feeling when you just start to get comfortable in one’s company. You like to be around them and enjoy with them.

Love makes you come with an integral feeling inside you which is dying to get out. Liking is often superficial but love sees nothing and just simple trail of deep emotions. Liking may give you fluttery feelings at times which may seem very cute to experience.

The tenure of liking is often considered as short period of time. It can’t leave an imprint on someone for a lifetime in the same flow. But if you love someone, it is for forever. It might look very filmy but it is the truest thing on the earth. Most men and women who are new birds in the area of relationship are often hesitant to say ”I love you” and rather turn down to saying ”I like you”. This saves them from acting fake in the initial phase and starts to discover more about each other. To make this concept clear, we might quote the example which goes on like, a relationship between a son and his mother. He will never say ” I like you mom”. He will naturally say ”I love you mom”. This is a natural feeling and embedded in children once they are born. Loving is something beyond those butterflies in your stomach. It is intense and tends to carry a lot higher position in terms of emotions as well as sacrifice for your partner. So, now when you keep all this in your head, which name goes in your head in terms of loving? Okay. Let’s make it clearer. If you know that you will have a car accident tomorrow and you will be dead within a few hours. Whom would you like to spend the last of your last time with? Did you now have that one name in your mind? If yes, then congratulations, you have found that ”one” person. It is not that easy as one, two, three. It requires deep down commitment, passion, thinking about future and many more likewise things. The basic foundation of any relation is trust. Without the foundation of trust, no relation and work can ever be successful, be it work, family, friends or any other thing in the whole wide world. Same goes with the case of love, but the difference between love and other relationships is that of its commitment and quantity.
Love is not affected by petty things. It is much complex than that. So, keep loving and liking. But choose the right persons for the right feelings!

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ANCHAL SHARDA

A BEAUTIFUL FEELING CALLED LOVE

THERE IS NO ONE IN THE WORLD WHO DO NOT WANT TO BE LOVED. LOVE IS A RARE THING AS NO ONE CAN EASILY GET IT. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR IT , NOT IN MONENARY TERMS BUT BY GUIDING , BY SHOWING YOUR CARE, AFFECTION. SO LOVE TO THEM WHO TRULY LOVE YOU. NEVER LET THEM GO. 

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT ADJUSMENTS. SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO ADJUST YOURSELVES ACCORDINGLY IF YOU WANT TO BE LOVED BY THE PERSON WITH WHOM YOU WANT TO SPEND REST OF YOUR LIFE. I KNOW ITS DIFFICULT BUT  SOMEHOW YOU HAVE TO DO IT AS ITS NECESSARY OTHERWISE YOU WILL FACE PROBLEMS, CONFLICTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. 

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ANCHAL SHARDA

Valentine's Day is approaching. You have a Valentine…but are you really in love with him or her? With your head spinning from all the heart-shape chocolates and red roses, it can be tough to figure out. Fortunately, scientists have pinned down exactly what it means to "fall in love."

Researchers have found that an in-love brain looks very different from one experiencing mere lust, and it's also unlike a brain of someone in a long-term, committed relationship. Studies led by Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University and one of the leading experts on the biological basis of love, have revealed that the brain's "in love" phase is a unique and well-defined period of time, and there are 13 telltale signs that you're in it.

1. "This one's special"

When you're in love, you begin to think your beloved is unique. The belief is coupled with an inability to feel romantic passion for anyone else. Fisher and her colleagues believe this single-mindedness results from elevated levels of central dopamine — a chemical involved in attention and focus — in your brain.

2. "She's perfect"

People who are truly in love tend to focus on the positive qualities of their beloved, while overlooking his or her negative traits. They also focus on trivial events and objects that remind them of their loved one, day-dreaming about these precious little moments and mementos. This focused attention is also thought to result from elevated levels of central dopamine, as well as a spike in central norepinephrine, a chemical associated with increased memory in the presence of new stimuli.

3. "I'm a wreck!"

As is well known, falling in love often leads to emotional and physiological instability. You bounce between exhilaration, euphoria, increased energy, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, trembling, a racing heart and accelerated breathing, as well as anxiety, panic and feelings of despair when your relationship suffers even the smallest setback. These mood swings parallel the behavior of drug addicts. And indeed, when in-love people are shown pictures of their loved ones, it fires up the same regions of the brain that activate when a drug addict takes a hit. Being in love, researchers say, is a form of addiction.

4. "Overcoming the challenge made us closer"

Going through some sort of adversity with another person tends to intensify romantic attraction. Central dopamine may be responsible for this reaction, too, because research shows that when a reward is delayed, dopamine-producing neurons in the mid-brain region become more productive.

5. "I'm obsessed with him"

People who are in love report that they spend, on average, more than 85 percent of their waking hours musing over their "love object." Intrusive thinking, as this form of obsessive behavior is called, may result from decreased levels of central serotonin in the brain, a condition that has been associated with obsessive behavior previously. (Obsessive-compulsive disorder is treated with serotonin-reuptake inhibitors.)

6. "I wish we could be together all the time"

People in love regularly exhibit signs of emotional dependency on their relationship, including possessiveness, jealousy, fear of rejection, and separation anxiety.

7. "I hope we stay together forever"

They also long for emotional union with their beloved, seeking out ways to get closer and day-dreaming about their future together.

8. "I'd do anything for her"

People who are in love generally feel a powerful sense of empathy toward their beloved, feeling the other person's pain as their own and being willing to sacri?ce anything for the other person.

9. "Would he like this outfit?"

Falling in love is marked by a tendency to reorder your daily priorities and/or change your clothing, mannerisms, habits or values in order for them to better align with those of your beloved.

10. "Can we be exclusive?"

Those who are deeply in love typically experience sexual desire for their beloved, but there are strong emotional strings attached: The longing for sex is coupled with possessiveness, a desire for sexual exclusivity, and extreme jealousy when the partner is suspected of infidelity. This possessiveness is thought to have evolved so that an in-love person will compel his or her partner to spurn other suitors, thereby insuring that the couple's courtship is not interrupted until conception has occurred.

11. "It's not about sex"

While the desire for sexual union is important to people in love, the craving for emotional union takes precedence.  A study found that 64 percent of people in love (the same percentage for both sexes) disagreed with the statement, “Sex is the most important part of my relationship with [my partner]."

12. "I feel out of control"

Fisher and her colleagues found that individuals who report being "in love" commonly say their passion is involuntary and uncontrollable.

13. "The spark is gone"

Unfortunately, being in love usually doesn't last forever. It's an impermanent state that either evolves into a long-term, codependent relationship that psychologists call "attachment," or it dissipates, and the relationship dissolves. If there are physical or social barriers inhibiting partners from seeing one another regularly — for example, if the relationship is long-distance — then the "in love" phase generally lasts longer than it would otherwise.





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